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Jin
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Hi, I'm Jin.
Sometimes working as an artist,
sometimes off on adventures as a costumed nerd.

:facebook: Facebook: facebook.com/Jin.behindinfinity
:bulletblue: Tumblr: behindinfinity.tumblr.com
:twitter: Twitter: @skybluedays
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Howl's Moving Castle: I finally found her by behindinfinity
Howl's Moving Castle: I finally found her
A simple Howl portrait. I imagined him smiling to himself after having found Sophie on May Day. <3

【 Howl's Moving Castle 】 
:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Howl Jenkins Pendragon
:camera: photography • Reskiy
Special thanks to merkymerx and yaoiangel14 for helping me with the set and assisting during the shoot!

More of my Howl photos:
Howl's Moving Castle: Wizard Howl by behindinfinity Howl's Moving Castle: Good Night by behindinfinity

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Howl's Moving Castle: Good Night by behindinfinity
Howl's Moving Castle: Good Night
A sleeping wizard in his castle 🌙 I imagine Sophie finding Howl asleep, and thinking that nobody would suspect how much of an insufferable twit he is if they saw him like this. :laughing:

【 Howl's Moving Castle 】 
:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Howl Jenkins Pendragon
:camera: photography • Reskiy
Special thanks to merkymerx and yaoiangel14 for helping me with the set and assisting during the shoot!

More of my Howl photos:
Howl's Moving Castle: Wizard Howl by behindinfinity

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Howl's Moving Castle: Wizard Howl by behindinfinity
Howl's Moving Castle: Wizard Howl
 "You must admit, I have a right to live in a pigsty if I want."

Kind of a beautiful pigsty though, if we're going by the visuals from the Ghibli film! The quote was from the novel, and is one of my favorite examples of Howl's cheekiness. (I would totally say that too when asked to tidy up my room💧)

【 Howl's Moving Castle 】 
:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Howl Jenkins Pendragon
:camera: photography 
Reskiy
Special thanks to merkymerx and yaoiangel14 for helping me with the set and assisting during the shoot!

More of my Howl photos:
Howl's Moving Castle: Good Night by behindinfinity

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Big Hero 6: The Gang by behindinfinity
Big Hero 6: The Gang
My previous photo sets were only with Baymax, Tadashi, and Aunt Cass, but more of our friends eventually got to join us for this cosplay! :)

These friends of mine are my headcanons for their respective characters so it was really cool to finally see them all dressed up! The whole shoot felt really natural because it was like we were just hanging out as usual, except while looking a little different, hahah!

:star: More of this photo set on my Tumblr (since I prefer some of the shots as photo sequences) — tuxteam.net/tagged/the-nerd-ga…

Big Hero 6

:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Hiro Hamada
:iconmerkymerx: Miguel • Tadashi Hamada
:iconmoonlightflight: Kat C. • Go Go Tomago
:iconangelace9: Jess • Honey Lemon
:iconsomemaskedude: Bok • Fred
:camera: photography • Reskiy

Lots of our Big Hero 6 cosplay photos are on my Tumblr! :pointr: behindinfinity.tumblr.com/tagg…

More of my Hiro Hamada cosplay from my gallery:
Big Hero 6: First Meeting by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro and Tadashi Hamada by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hamada Fistbump! by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Let's Take The Stairs by behindinfinity Hiro and Baymax: There, There by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro and Baymax 2.0 by behindinfinity
:star: BH6 folder :pointr: behindinfinity.deviantart.com/…

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Big Hero 6: Nerd Talk by behindinfinity
Big Hero 6: Nerd Talk
We tried to imagine what it would have been like if Hiro and Tadashi got to go to school together. There would probably have been more colorful ideas being bounced between the two brothers. Fred is having none of this nerd talk, though. Hahah!

:star: More of this photo set on our Tumblr — tuxteam.net/tagged/the-nerd-ga…

Big Hero 6
:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Hiro Hamada
:iconmerkymerx: Miguel • Tadashi Hamada
:iconmoonlightflight: Kat C. • Go Go Tomago
:iconangelace9: Jess • Honey Lemon
:iconsomemaskedude: Bok • Fred
:camera: photography • Reskiy

Lots of our Big Hero 6 cosplay photos are on my Tumblr! :pointr: behindinfinity.tumblr.com/tagg…

More of my Hiro Hamada cosplay from my gallery:
Big Hero 6: First Meeting by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro and Tadashi Hamada by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hamada Fistbump! by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Let's Take The Stairs by behindinfinity Hiro and Baymax: There, There by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro and Baymax 2.0 by behindinfinity
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How do you deal with haters?

Fri Jun 13, 2014, 4:25 PM by behindinfinity:iconbehindinfinity:


I got this as a question on my Tumblr, and I felt I could share my thoughts here as well because it seems it's something a lot of people can relate to. I hope this comes to helpful to any of you guys reading.

I’m certain there are people who dislike me. Some I come to know through whisperings because I have eyes everyyyyywheeeeere.

However, I don’t feel the need to acknowledge them or do anything about it unless they are causing any real harm, especially to people I care about.


There is a popular quote that I like referencing for this topic, which gets the message across in a charming way:

You can be a juicy, ripe peach and there’s still going to be someone who doesn’t like peaches, so you can either submit to someone’s criticism of you, or you can get on with the business of being your own amazing self who attracts other like-minded people that appreciate you.” — Dita Von Teese

I used to be affected if I found out someone didn’t like me, but I’ve come to learn that people can have very irrational reasons for hating someone.

Sometimes it is simply because your personalities and tastes are not compatible. And that’s fine and normal. 

Other times, they can take a part of you and twist it and build up their own negative perception and convince themselves that they are right to hate you. But it doesn’t mean that what they think about you is true. Their image of you that they force upon themselves could be due to their own insecurities.

Although I sometimes say this jokingly, I find that in certain cases it’s not just simply “Haters gonna hate.” I also dislike it when people jump to the conclusion, “They just hate you because they’re jealous.” While it can be true at times, it’s not the ultimate answer. Let’s be real here. It is not surprising for people to feel a sense of dislike towards someone who is truly being a terrible human being. Did you do something that merits you being considered a terrible human being? If the answer is no, then good.


Here’s what you can do: If someone openly throws some harsh words at you, take a deep breath and try to objectively consider what they have to say. Maybe you can ask yourself things like:

:bulletorange: Are they actually trying to offer constructive criticism but are  lacking in tact and eloquence? If they seem interesting or intelligent enough, try to converse with them to understand. Maybe you’ll learn something new. If they are just bigots or trolls, pity them for a second, don’t dignify them with an answer or any more of your time, and move on. Be the better person.

:bulletorange: Are they pointing out something you may have done wrong that you weren’t aware of? Do you think they are right? If they are, be humble enough to consider that you might have something to improve on. If they’re not, then just don’t mind them. If someone is really set on disliking you, you’re the last person they will allow to change their minds.


These are just general ideas, because it always depends on the context. But in the end, what’s important is that if you truly believe you did nothing wrong, then disregard them and walk away with your head held high. Hopefully you aren’t a sociopath.

You can’t please every single person in the world. And that’s okay. The people whose happiness and opinions should matter the most are your own, and those of the people you care about and care for you. If you focus on being your own fantastic self, you can feel sorry for your haters because they lost the opportunity to get to know the wonderful person you are.

Jin!

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It doesn't bend air or anything, but I still think it's pretty cool.

My avatar was a gift from JadeLand, and she also made matching Tuxedo Team icons for Kat moonlightflight, Miguel merkymerx, Nejin ceruleanmorning and China snowpeachdrop. They hold a lot of sentimental value for us so we'd appreciate if you don't steal them! Thank you! :D

:iconbehindinfinity::iconmoonlightflight::iconmerkymerx::iconceruleanmorning::iconsnowpeachdrop:


NOTE: I've been asked this a lot so I thought I should explain. China (snowpeachdrop) is still in our company, but no longer indulges in the hobby of cosplay due to other aspects of life that she chooses to dedicate her time to. She deactivated her account because she no longer feels that her work there represents who she is as an artist. That's all there is to it. :)

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:iconbony78:
bony78 Featured By Owner Aug 21, 2015
Waw you are very look like big hero 6 lol
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darksnow Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2015
Hiya, another of your fan from facebook who is also here! xD
I didn't realize you're a girl! Lol You cosplay and do so well as boy that
I just normally assumed you were. I'm a girl and planning to cosplay as
a guy for a con next year. How do you manage to cosplay so well as a
boy for so many characters? Were you nervous? I'm nervous on how odd I
will look but I will go through with it. I know gender or glasses shouldn't be an obstacle 
when wanting to cosplay any character. 
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girly-Eclipse Featured By Owner Jul 18, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
your a pilipino?
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:iconbbmckenzie:
BBMcKenzie Featured By Owner Jul 7, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
All of your work is incredible!
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Fran1DMlpLps Featured By Owner Jul 6, 2015  Student General Artist
OH! dios mio, sus cosplay son tan perfectos<3 los amo :3
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