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Kyoto Inferno: Hello, Mr. Himura by behindinfinity
Kyoto Inferno: Hello, Mr. Himura
"Mr. Himura, I'm just here to deliver a message from Lord Shishio. Let's play together another time. :heart:"

Rurouni Kenshin: Kyoto Inferno cosplay

:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) 
▻ Kenshin Himura
:iconelpheal: Kaika ▻ Soujiro Seta
:camera: photography by Reskiy
Rurouni Kenshin movie sakabatou from geishasblade.com


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Rurouni Kenshin: It's Gonna Rain by behindinfinity
Rurouni Kenshin: It's Gonna Rain
Kenshin having a pensive moment in the rain. I imagine he was remembering Tomoe. I like to think of this shoot as a continuation of our Kenshin and Tomoe photo set :pointr: behindinfinity.deviantart.com/…

It was actually a very rainy day when we had this shoot. What was supposed to be Kyoto Inferno was rather wet. Hahah! Thankfully, it was appropriate enough for Rurouni Kenshin so we just did our best to work with it. Although we got pretty muddy and had to run for shelter at times, there were calm moments when the light had an interesting quality, so it was an interesting twist to the day. All my friends (even who were also in cosplay) are troopers and even through howling winds and pelting rain, our mood wasn't dampened in the least!


Rurouni Kenshin: Kyoto Inferno cosplay
:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) 
▻ Kenshin Himura
:camera: photography by Reskiy
Rurouni Kenshin movie sakabatou from geishasblade.com


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Big Hero 6: Nerds by behindinfinity
Big Hero 6: Nerds
"Hiro, I found candy just for us!"
"Leave me out of it, nerd!"


A couple of nerds finding Nerds while searching for gummy bears. True story. ^^; 
We were moving to another location during the shoot, but the two of us
wanted to drop by the nearby supermarket to grab some snacks before we
left. I was craving for gummy bears but we found Nerds first! Hamadorks
instincts kicked in.


Big Hero 6

:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Hiro Hamada
:iconmerkymerx: Miguel • Tadashi Hamada
:camera: photography • Reskiy

Lots of our Big Hero 6 cosplay photos are on my Tumblr! :pointr: behindinfinity.tumblr.com/tagg…

More of my Hiro Hamada cosplay from my gallery:
Big Hero 6: Hiro Hamada by behindinfinity  Big Hero 6: NERD BROS GATTAI DA by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro and Tadashi by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro's Family by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Stress Eating by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Look For A New Angle by behindinfinity


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Big Hero 6: Family Bonding by behindinfinity
Big Hero 6: Family Bonding
"You boys spend too much time cooped up with your robots! We're going outside today!"

That is my actual face when I am being torn away from my room on days I feel like being a hermit :lol:

Part of this photo set → http://behindinfinity.tumblr.com/post/108775772561/kazoku (slight visual spoiler if you haven't even seen the trailers yet)

Big Hero 6
:iconbehindinfinity: Jin (me) • Hiro Hamada
:iconmerkymerx: Miguel • Tadashi Hamada
:iconneko-panigiri: Kat • Aunt Cass
:camera: photography • Reskiy

Lots of our Big Hero 6 cosplay photos are on my Tumblr! :pointr: behindinfinity.tumblr.com/tagg…

Big Hero 6: Hiro Hamada by behindinfinity  Big Hero 6: NERD BROS GATTAI DA by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro and Tadashi by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Hiro's Family by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Stress Eating by behindinfinity Big Hero 6: Look For A New Angle by behindinfinity


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How do you deal with haters?

Fri Jun 13, 2014, 4:25 PM by behindinfinity:iconbehindinfinity:


I got this as a question on my Tumblr, and I felt I could share my thoughts here as well because it seems it's something a lot of people can relate to. I hope this comes to helpful to any of you guys reading.

I’m certain there are people who dislike me. Some I come to know through whisperings because I have eyes everyyyyywheeeeere.

However, I don’t feel the need to acknowledge them or do anything about it unless they are causing any real harm, especially to people I care about.


There is a popular quote that I like referencing for this topic, which gets the message across in a charming way:

You can be a juicy, ripe peach and there’s still going to be someone who doesn’t like peaches, so you can either submit to someone’s criticism of you, or you can get on with the business of being your own amazing self who attracts other like-minded people that appreciate you.” — Dita Von Teese

I used to be affected if I found out someone didn’t like me, but I’ve come to learn that people can have very irrational reasons for hating someone.

Sometimes it is simply because your personalities and tastes are not compatible. And that’s fine and normal. 

Other times, they can take a part of you and twist it and build up their own negative perception and convince themselves that they are right to hate you. But it doesn’t mean that what they think about you is true. Their image of you that they force upon themselves could be due to their own insecurities.

Although I sometimes say this jokingly, I find that in certain cases it’s not just simply “Haters gonna hate.” I also dislike it when people jump to the conclusion, “They just hate you because they’re jealous.” While it can be true at times, it’s not the ultimate answer. Let’s be real here. It is not surprising for people to feel a sense of dislike towards someone who is truly being a terrible human being. Did you do something that merits you being considered a terrible human being? If the answer is no, then good.


Here’s what you can do: If someone openly throws some harsh words at you, take a deep breath and try to objectively consider what they have to say. Maybe you can ask yourself things like:

:bulletorange: Are they actually trying to offer constructive criticism but are  lacking in tact and eloquence? If they seem interesting or intelligent enough, try to converse with them to understand. Maybe you’ll learn something new. If they are just bigots or trolls, pity them for a second, don’t dignify them with an answer or any more of your time, and move on. Be the better person.

:bulletorange: Are they pointing out something you may have done wrong that you weren’t aware of? Do you think they are right? If they are, be humble enough to consider that you might have something to improve on. If they’re not, then just don’t mind them. If someone is really set on disliking you, you’re the last person they will allow to change their minds.


These are just general ideas, because it always depends on the context. But in the end, what’s important is that if you truly believe you did nothing wrong, then disregard them and walk away with your head held high. Hopefully you aren’t a sociopath.

You can’t please every single person in the world. And that’s okay. The people whose happiness and opinions should matter the most are your own, and those of the people you care about and care for you. If you focus on being your own fantastic self, you can feel sorry for your haters because they lost the opportunity to get to know the wonderful person you are.

Jin!

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behindinfinity
Jin
Artist | Varied
Philippines
Hi, I'm Jin.
I like painting,
I enjoy taking pictures,
I'm happiest on rainy days,
and I'm not very good at introductions.

:facebook: Facebook: facebook.com/Jin.behindinfinity
:twitter: Twitter: @skybluedays
:camera: Instagram: @jinjoson
:snowflake: Art blog: jinjoson.com
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Would you like to see us dance to TAAAKEEE TAAAAAKEEEE 

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717 deviants said TAKERUUUUUUU well here it is :pointr: www.youtube.com/watch?v=accQBI…

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It doesn't bend air or anything, but I still think it's pretty cool.

My avatar was a gift from JadeLand, and she also made matching Tuxedo Team icons for Kat moonlightflight, Miguel merkymerx, Nejin ceruleanmorning and China snowpeachdrop. They hold a lot of sentimental value for us so we'd appreciate if you don't steal them! Thank you! :D

:iconbehindinfinity::iconmoonlightflight::iconmerkymerx::iconceruleanmorning::iconsnowpeachdrop:


NOTE: I've been asked this a lot so I thought I should explain. China (snowpeachdrop) is still in our company, but no longer indulges in the hobby of cosplay due to other aspects of life that she chooses to dedicate her time to. She deactivated her account because she no longer feels that her work there represents who she is as an artist. That's all there is to it. :)

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AnimeGirl513 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015
I've mentioned your cosplaying in my new journal entry Jin! come check it out!
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emmaceecosplay Featured By Owner Jan 15, 2015  New member
GAHHHHHH I LOVE YOUR COSPLAYS YIU GUYS ARE AMAZING IM IN LOVE!!!!
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FrozenFanofArendelle Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  New member Student Traditional Artist
:) nice work :thumbup:
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AnimeGirl513 Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2015
Hi Jin it's me again! listen I love your photos so much that one of them inspired me to write a Big Hero 6 short story! come to my page if you wanna read it. It's called "I Miss them Too".
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AnimeGirl513 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015
I love your Big Hero 6 cosplay photos Jin! their really awesome and creative I especially like the other one's you have on your tumblr. You should post more of them on here too!
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