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Jin
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Hi, I'm Jin.
Sometimes working as an artist,
sometimes off on adventures as a costumed nerd.

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Yuri On Ice: Training

From my training Yuuri photo set in Australia! In this shoot I got to channel a lot of Yuuri’s relatable self-doubt. Maybe someday I will be brave enough to properly do Eros.

This was from our visit to The Big Banana Fun Park. The layout of their rink and the yellow stripe gave it a similar feeling to Ice Castle from the anime. I hadn’t skated in years before that, and it felt good to be on the ice again!

【 ユーリ!!! on ICE 】
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Heir to the Iron Throne
Sora of the House of Light, First of His Name, the Traveler, King of the Key and the Doorways to Everywhere, Connector of Hearts, Savior of the Tragic, and Keeper of the Heart of Ventus, Hero of Light, Protector of World, Keyblade Master, and the Heart to where all Hearts Return

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A couple of weeks ago, merkymerx and I were in Australia as cosplay event guests, and I put together a vlog about the trip!



I had a lot of fun putting this together, and I hope you enjoy it as well!
FFXV Cosplay: Ch.13 Rescue and Recovery
My friends and I were anticipating the release of Episode Prompto (which is out now!) and while waiting, we did a shoot that we’ve been wanting to for a long time! Getting through Chapter 13 in the game was emotionally tough; it was such a weight off my chest when everyone was reunited!

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How do you deal with haters?

Fri Jun 13, 2014, 4:25 PM by behindinfinity:iconbehindinfinity:


I got this as a question on my Tumblr, and I felt I could share my thoughts here as well because it seems it's something a lot of people can relate to. I hope this comes to helpful to any of you guys reading.

I’m certain there are people who dislike me. Some I come to know through whisperings because I have eyes everyyyyywheeeeere.

However, I don’t feel the need to acknowledge them or do anything about it unless they are causing any real harm, especially to people I care about.


There is a popular quote that I like referencing for this topic, which gets the message across in a charming way:

You can be a juicy, ripe peach and there’s still going to be someone who doesn’t like peaches, so you can either submit to someone’s criticism of you, or you can get on with the business of being your own amazing self who attracts other like-minded people that appreciate you.” — Dita Von Teese

I used to be affected if I found out someone didn’t like me, but I’ve come to learn that people can have very irrational reasons for hating someone.

Sometimes it is simply because your personalities and tastes are not compatible. And that’s fine and normal. 

Other times, they can take a part of you and twist it and build up their own negative perception and convince themselves that they are right to hate you. But it doesn’t mean that what they think about you is true. Their image of you that they force upon themselves could be due to their own insecurities.

Although I sometimes say this jokingly, I find that in certain cases it’s not just simply “Haters gonna hate.” I also dislike it when people jump to the conclusion, “They just hate you because they’re jealous.” While it can be true at times, it’s not the ultimate answer. Let’s be real here. It is not surprising for people to feel a sense of dislike towards someone who is truly being a terrible human being. Did you do something that merits you being considered a terrible human being? If the answer is no, then good.


Here’s what you can do: If someone openly throws some harsh words at you, take a deep breath and try to objectively consider what they have to say. Maybe you can ask yourself things like:

:bulletorange: Are they actually trying to offer constructive criticism but are  lacking in tact and eloquence? If they seem interesting or intelligent enough, try to converse with them to understand. Maybe you’ll learn something new. If they are just bigots or trolls, pity them for a second, don’t dignify them with an answer or any more of your time, and move on. Be the better person.

:bulletorange: Are they pointing out something you may have done wrong that you weren’t aware of? Do you think they are right? If they are, be humble enough to consider that you might have something to improve on. If they’re not, then just don’t mind them. If someone is really set on disliking you, you’re the last person they will allow to change their minds.


These are just general ideas, because it always depends on the context. But in the end, what’s important is that if you truly believe you did nothing wrong, then disregard them and walk away with your head held high. Hopefully you aren’t a sociopath.

You can’t please every single person in the world. And that’s okay. The people whose happiness and opinions should matter the most are your own, and those of the people you care about and care for you. If you focus on being your own fantastic self, you can feel sorry for your haters because they lost the opportunity to get to know the wonderful person you are.

Jin!

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i don't think i have ever seen cosplay done so amazingly and in my opinion so perfectly before!
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